Well, my mom was right. I rarely admit to that but yes, she's right. There, I said it twice. lol The boy and I broke up, it was very nice, I simply told him I felt he wasn't in the relationship for the right reasons (duh) and he just said ok. He didn't try to ask for specifics or what led me to my conclusions, just said ok and we'd stay friends. I'm sure he knew what I was talking about. So we're done, friends but that's it.
Now, the day I met him there was another good looking African dude sitting there but he didn't talk to me, ex boy did. Since then, I've seen him around and we've started chatting. Last week we were on the bus together because his roommate was borrowing his car for the day. Previous to that the car had been in the shop which was why we met in the first place. So he said once he got his car back he'd be back to driving, lucky him. Then today, I was standing at the bus stop as usual, kind of zoning out, and a car pulled up to the stop. I glance over and it was newbie. (He's from Ghana by the way, nice accent.) He said get in, he'd give me a lift home. I was like score. So I climbed in, he knew how to get to my town so I didn't even have to give directions. He also remembered what it was called which makes me wonder if he didn't look it up online beforehand. lol Who knows, it was just nice to get home early.
We pulled up, I got up and he started to turn around in my neighbor's driveway to leave. My mom was just coming out with the two puppies and was like, what are you doing home? I told her a friend gave me a lift. What friend? Who is that? I don't remember you mentioning him. lol It actually didn't even occur to me until after she brought it up though, I think he lives in Cincinnati because when he's gotten on the bus with me he always leaves to catch *I think* the Cinci bus. Of course, I stop in Cincinnati and then go back into Kentucky from there so I could be wrong. So I think he even went out of his way to take me but I'm not sure. Maybe I was en route, maybe I wasn't. I have to ask him where he lives again. Next thing out of my mom's mouth: Well don't go getting involved with him either, you don't need to be seeing anyone right now. lol I was like yeah, I know. He's good eye candy and I like his accent (me and foreigners...) but that will probably be it.
Now, I have another guy on the bus who doesn't ride all the time but usually I'll see him once a week. He's very quiet and when he used to sit next to me, I'd be looking out the window listening to my ipod and I can see in the window reflection that he'd sit there and keep looking at me. I would then turn my head to look at him and he'd whip his head around and act like he'd been looking elsewhere; it amused me. So two weeks ago I decided to give him a reason to keep looking at me and said hey. I started talking to him, just chit chat, and he reminds me so much of a boy in grade school unsure of how to handle himself around the girls. He's not a bad looking dude, kinda cute actually, in construction, 26 and from Ecuador. I told you...me and foreigners...so we chat, just general crap. So this last time when we were on the bus, I was asking where he came from and if he had family from up here blah blah and there was this older guy sitting by himself in front of us. I saw him look behind at me and he said something and started wagging his finger at me. I was like, what? So I leaned forward and asked what he said. He repeated in his same quiet, mush mouth tone so once again I had no idea. I looked at my dude and he shrugged so we both just laughed. I was probably getting reprimanded for talking to a guy I didn't know. lol
So now I have men crawling out of the woodwork. I have someone on the bus that usually talks to me about something, be in politics or as was the case today, dogs. (This guy's dog is a holy terror and I was trying to tell him how to fix the problem but he's a nimwit and I know he won't do what I told him.) It's amazing the people you'll meet on the bus, mine just seem to be all men. lol
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