Part 3

So after quite a while of really not speaking, I saw on facebook that his relationship status was suddenly listed as single. He had never put that he was married or anything so I thought it must be a sort of joke. His wife had gone back to India for a couple months, apparently to work on her english and degree. When he first told me that I thought she wouldn't return. My mom agreed with me there but of course I would never mention that to him. Well we were right. She didn't want to come back and they were actually getting a divorce. Less than a year of marriage and they were already getting a divorce.

I had written on his wall laughing at his single status. He sent me an instant message after that explaining he was getting a divorce and how nice it was that I was laughing at his misery. I tried to explain that I didn't realize what it entailed seeing as he had always told me divorce wasn't an option and he was in it for better or worse. He said things change. Here is our conversation and thus the ruining of our friendship:

Leah Bennett: so what happened?
Nish-O-Nash: nothing to say - my status and being seperated means i m in the middle of divorse- we no longer stay together- she has gone back to india. so much for the amusing status
Leah Bennett: i thought u said divorce wasnt an option
Leah Bennett: and that her return to india was only temporary
Nish-O-Nash: sometimes life takes a u - turn
Nish-O-Nash: n options become reality
Nish-O-Nash: nys
Nish-O-Nash: hope u r having a good day
Leah Bennett: what about your families?
Nish-O-Nash: leah - y wld u care - i tired to talk to u - u wldnt even wanna say hi n wld sign off
Leah Bennett: first of all, last time we really talked you said something highly insulting to me, i mentioned it and u said to grow up, yes i wasnt quick to have a nice convo, second of all, i use a wireless connection which is sometimes good, sometimes bad because i steal it off other people so i will randomly sign out and then come back assuming i can hook onto another one (sometimes i cant)
Nish-O-Nash: u write blogs about friendships n yet why cant you understand that close friends when they say smthng you shd nt react or get angry every 5 mins
Nish-O-Nash: have I ever left anything undone to convince you how much i loved u or cared about u - then yet why have u over n over made me feel like crap
Leah Bennett: well plenty of things annoy me but that one definitely did it for me, close friend or not it was uncalled for (personally i would think especially from a close friend it was uncalled for), and that one comment yes made me rethink what you really thought about me and, i know we've had this convo before, i usually dont know when ive insulted you because u dont say anything and i dont try to make u feel like crap
Nish-O-Nash: alright miss leah - this is over - good luck to u too - i had enough of ur bull shit
Nish-O-Nash: bye
Leah Bennett: omfg, you know what, i asked because i still care, friends that dont communicate for years still come to each others aide, divorces are never easy, insulting or not i thought u might want to talk, not argue over every little goddamn thing
Nish-O-Nash: i said its over- keep ur two thoughts to urself leah
Nish-O-Nash: i dont need more crap
Leah Bennett: i swallowed my pride and didnt ask for an apology i didnt think ud mean but still wanted to support you in the only way i know how
Nish-O-Nash: go away
Nish-O-Nash: thats it
Leah Bennett: god damn
Nish-O-Nash: i dont care about apologies
Nish-O-Nash: n wht u think no more
Nish-O-Nash: i had it too
Nish-O-Nash: bye
Leah Bennett: yeah well it mattered to me for what all that counts
Nish-O-Nash: yes it did until wht u wrote today
Nish-O-Nash: n thts it
Nish-O-Nash: u want to see wht temper is all about
Nish-O-Nash: alright girl
Nish-O-Nash: u asked for it today
Nish-O-Nash: fine
Nish-O-Nash: u dont like wht i said
Nish-O-Nash: u dont like wht i did
Nish-O-Nash: fine
Nish-O-Nash: hell with it
Nish-O-Nash: tired of beign at the recieveing end
Nish-O-Nash: ya u are right i dont say wht i feel
Nish-O-Nash: coz i cared about not hurting my loved ones
Nish-O-Nash: yes that may be wrong for u
Nish-O-Nash: so be it
Nish-O-Nash: i had enought
Nish-O-Nash: hell wit u
Nish-O-Nash: n wht u think
Nish-O-Nash: good luck