Phone Number

I have long known that men can be rather strange at times. I have a little one myself so yes, men of all ages can be strange. Several weeks back I had a good looking dude start to hit on me. We rode the bus most mornings and while we had never talked, I had always considered him nice eye candy. So we got off the bus here at school and he started talking to me. He had to go to the library; I was heading to the Union. So we parted ways and not surprisingly he stopped by the Union afterwards, found me and we chatted for about a half hour before I had to leave for class.

So he asked for my phone number and I decided to go out on a limb and gave it to him and he in turn gave me his. Now, any sane guy that has a girl who seems even mildly interested would call her and see what becomes of it. Did he ever call? Nope. Dumbass. I'm not sure why he would ask for my number if he had no intention of calling. If he were stupid and lost it, figuring most people are creatures of habit, he should have come to the Union and looked for me. After all, I'm always in the same spot, can't miss me. I think I saw him later talking to another girl; I ignored him and went on working. Men just sometimes don't make sense. Few get my number and those that do, usually have an interest in calling me. Oh well, his loss. I am tempted though if I see him again to just walk up behind him and smack him on the head...just for good measure. lol

So guys, if a girl goes out on a limb for you, don't be an idiot. If you like her, work for her. If you're not genuinely interested, move on and don't throw out false leads. You'll either irritate her or depending on how smitten she was with you, you'll crush her. I've been in both situations; it's a pain in the ass.